Building an ADU for aging parents
AARP Public Policy Institute documents the caregiving wave. Here is what an ADU costs vs. assisted living, and what to design in.

The caregiving math
AARP Public Policy Institute estimates the value of unpaid family caregiving in the United States in the hundreds of billions of dollars annually. The single largest hidden cost in elder care is geographic distance — the time and travel that adult children absorb to support a parent in a separate household.
An ADU eliminates the distance entirely while preserving the parent's privacy and routine.
Sources:AARP Public Policy Institute
Cost vs. assisted living
Seattle assisted-living averages $7,500/month in 2025 — $90,000/year, before any memory-care upcharge. A purpose-built aging-in-place DADU at $325,000 is paid back in under 4 years against the assisted-living alternative.
Even after the parent is no longer using the unit, it converts cleanly to long-term rental at $2,400–$2,900/month or to resale value at full market premium.
Sources:AARP
Design must-haves
Zero-step entry. 36-inch doorways throughout. Curbless shower with bench and grab-bar blocking. Lever door hardware. Rocker light switches. Reinforced toilet and vanity walls. Induction range, not gas. LED lighting at 50+ foot-candles in kitchen, bath, and entry.
All items pulled from ADA design guidance and AARP's HomeFit checklist — both publicly available.
Sources:U.S. Department of Justice


